Below, I will define the traits and qualities I look for in a potential mate.

  • Personality:
    • Fluent in 日本語。Since I am to live in Japan indefinitely, Japanese language is a must to survive in Japan.
    • MOST IMPORTANT: Can accept me and all my faults as I am!
    • VERY IMPORTANT: NON SMOKER
    • Will socially drink - alcohol
    • Well Educated. She must be able to create and/or carry a conversation on diverse topics. Hard to talk to someone that refuses to understand the topic you are discussing.
    • Does not focus on money - but is efficient with spending and knows how to save.
    • A practical “down to earth” sense: Doesn’t care to dress in fancy clothes everyday.
    • Uses as little makeup as possible - I prefer all natural… No makeup…
    • Likes to explore and travel. Not afraid to spend a week camping without the luxuries of the city.
    • Enjoys movies both at the theater and at home.
    • Can handle computers and online surfing/shopping. Would enjoy spending time together on the PS3.
    • Can speak some English - this is a low priority, but I must increase my 日本語のレバル!
    • Can learn new things - Can she be a good cook? Would she be willing to learn sewing?
  • Geographic location:
    • Lives reasonably close to my current home
    • Should not take more than an hour by train or foot to visit her home.
  • Physical Attributes:
    • Asian
    • Favors long hair
    • Dark hair color - I prefer black but brown is okay as well
    • Age: Mid-twenties to mid-thirties. Younger is preferred as I desire at least 3 kids.
    • She must be single.
    • I prefer that she has not yet married and has yet produced kids. But be able to birth children.
    • Weight: 60Kg ~ 90Kg - not too skinny… I’m not attracted to “tooth picks.”
    • Height: no more than 180cm
    • I like a girl that prefers to wear skirts as I enjoy looking at the soft skin of their legs.