List of things about Naoko that I like or “hate…” :

Good Bad
  1. Charming
  2. Feisty
  3. Academic
  4. Wants family and children
  5. Hates Tobacco
  6. does not drink alcohol - good for baby
  7. Hint of rebelliousness
  8. *seems* to have accepted my disability
  9. Fluent Japanese -- makes it better for me to learn.
  10. Down to Earth - Practical
  11. Does not seem to want fancy clothes
  12. Mostly honest - hidden debt?
  13. Cooks Japanese food.
  14. Could be a good teacher...
  1. Impatient
  2. Short-tempered
  3. Sometimes short-sighted
  4. College educated but no career
  5. Can't hold a job longer than a year
  6. *seems* to care too much about my job situation -- I should have never told her about BofA! (At least, not until the ink was dry on the contract.)
  7. Has "broke-up" twice now with me. [Strike 3, she's out!]
  8. (Recently) won't allow me to sleep in her apartment when visiting Nagoya
  9. Asking for money and then "running..."
  10. "shitty" birthday treatment.

Questions yet to be answered: 🔗

  • Would she be willing to become a house wife?
  • If needed (or she wanted), could she find a job in Tokyo?
  • Could she learn to _sew_? I would like to _start making clothes_!